Third-party situations are common in a Twinflame connection. If the runner runs quite enough, they end up running into a karmic connection. A relationship where the runner will be abused for enough time to start self-reflecting and do their inner work, also to recognise the value of their Twinflame and to go back. Yes, Karmics are a blessing for a Twinflame connection from a higher perspective. Karmic connections refine the incredibly stubborn divine masculines, helping them in ascension and awaken to their mission work.
Trauma bonding can also happen in a Twinflame connection. But if it happens, it happens between all three, not just between the DM and DF. Because it’s an energetic loop between all three.
A twin flame connection is between the Divine feminine, Divine masculine and the Divine itself. It’s a sacred soul connection, two loyal hearts that love each other for infinite lifetimes.
But being on the earthly plain, not only the uncertainty but the blockages also add to the separation. Sometimes the blockage is not your healing or Awakening, but circumstances.
People justify toxic as spiritual and spiritual as toxic.
People stay in toxic abusive relationships and justify it as past life karma. They even justify it as a karmic soulmate. There’s no such thing as a “Karmic Soulmate”. Either its a “Karmic” or a “Soulmate”. That’s just spiritual bypassing being misused to justify abuse.
Soulmates are your high vibrational match and that relationship can never be abusive. It’s a Dharmic connection, that is your soul family, people who are connected by a purpose.
Twin flames come in all sorts of unconventional templates, be it LGBTQ, religious differences, cultural differences, different societal beliefs, long distance by countries apart, third party situation, age gape and all cases possible.
Almost all twin flames are designed to incarnate in unconventional templates, it’s a part of their soul mission. To challenge everyone’s traditional belief about what real love is & to establish new paradigms for relationships. They challenge their own beliefs too, for rapid ascension. All twin flames all Lightworkers as well.
Spirit makes sure that Twinflames meet each other with a lot of serendipity. Both are given sings before meeting, continues until the union. So I will talk about a few.
But there’s never a need for explanation, energy speaks it all. People be like how do you know it’s your twin flame and that shit is real. Like come on, don’t diss me. If you have seen a twin flame together even for a second, you know they are twin flames. Everyone knows, without a doubt, that they are made for each other.. even if you don’t know about the label, you know.
There are so many types of worldly loves on this planet. Platonic love, romantic love, faithful love, loyal love, showoff love, materialistic love, conditional love, toxic love, abusive love.. we often talk about all of these, but rarely about sacred love.
True unconditional love is sacred, it’s divine, it’s pure.. it comes from the heavens and is protected by God himself.
Love is such a controversial topic. It’s the most important pillar in the foundation of life, yet so underrated.
I call it “judgmental” society because there is another community which respects twin flames like anything. The community that includes Lightworkers/starseeds, humanities, healers, shamans, earth angels, poets and lovers.
Twin flames are a symbol of love. So everyone who isn’t vibrating on the frequency of love, hates them. That’s why toxic people hate us the most. Anyone who is disconnected from their true self, who doesn’t feel love inside, who doesn’t have self-love, who doesn’t believe in love, who hates love, who has attached negative stories to the definition of love, who is wounded inside, who lives in toxicity and disfunction, everyone who doesn’t have faith, hates us. Just like everyone who struggles with their own darkness, hates Lightworkers.
There are a lot of different philosophies given about it..but being a twin flame I will share the definition that I personally agree with.
The soul is just like a ball of energy travelling in the Spiritual dimension. Twin flames are two souls, created by splitting the same ball into two. Every soul has a balance of Feminine and Masculine energy, but twin flames are spilt with polarity, one holds dominant Feminine energy and another holds dominant Masculine energy.
We said goodbyes not knowing it would be the last. We said goodbyes and with that goodbye, I remembered all the times we had said goodbyes to each other. I remembered every time we met and separated.
We met like Romeo and Juliet, like star-crossed lovers I still remember the first moment we locked our eyes The first moment we saw each other in this human form We separated with a promise that you will come back But life took me away from you I hated everyday that I had to live without you And then one day I gave up on life to see you again.
We were young children giving each other company when we had no one else to look up to. And we said goodbye. We never met again cause I left this world.
We met again, this time I had to leave you all by yourself to protect you, I had to sacrifice our love to protect you. We said goodbye again. I returned after all those years of pain, but I had already lost you. I sat there with the regret of leaving you, watching the storm come towards me.
We met again this time you had to leave for the wars, we said goodbye again. I waited whole my life for you to come back till my last breath and I left with a hope to see you again.
We met again, both been torn by this world already, both fighting our demons. I tried to be your light and you tried to be mine. But we said goodbye. I look at the moon and I wonder, would we ever be able to stop saying goodbyes. It happened again, we got stuck in the dark, I wonder if its better to say Goodbyes. You did it, you fought the darkness for us And I don’t have doubts anymore. This time I will not only live you till my dying day But I will be with you till my dying day. There’s won’t be any sad Goodbyes anymore.
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I am a twin flame and this is pretty much my entire love story for 5 incarnations. He’s my muse and I can’t stop myself from writing about him
The Pretty Smart Techie 