Anyone who has not guessed it yet by reading my posts, my Twinflame is married to the dark Karmic. And the marriage is a fraud, both of them betrayed me, they played each other, both of their friends and family betrayed him, they are both deceiving their community by pretending to be a happily married couple. It’s a lie. The Karmic because the divine masculine has the potential to earn money. The Karmic and her family chose him because he is an empath to cover up for her mental illness, her parents didn’t care if the guy they chose for her was already in love with someone else as far as he can be the source of money. My Twinflame’s family chose the Karmic over me because she is as abusive as them, all they cared about is having control over him and the money that would come with her. The marriage was nothing more than a business deal between two families. The business deal was an arranged marriage but the wounded children love playing house on social media by pretending as if it was a love marriage. And I have been watching this TV show for a long time. All of them have so much craze for social media and public image, that they can even get married for it. They need to have someone for financial stability, safety and security and they can have someone else on the side for love.
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I AM FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT
Every time I post about being financially stable or financially independent. People always think that I might have recently come into some type of success. This is the lack mindset everyone projects on me. I have been financially independent for years, since 2017 to be accurate. And I have never been broke, ever.
I post it everytime when the karmic starts spreading rumours about me that I’m a golddigger, to create trust issues with my Twinflame. It’s a projection of who she is. She lies and everyone in his friend circle and family believes it, because they think not having a 9 to 5 job makes you poor. They compare that she has a job and I don’t. Well I had 5.5 years of experience as a software developer when I left IT and she was a fresher, that too in some other field not IT. My work profile and skillset still have high market value.
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How does trauma bonding happen in third party situation in Twinflame connections
Third-party situations are common in a Twinflame connection. If the runner runs quite enough, they end up running into a karmic connection. A relationship where the runner will be abused for enough time to start self-reflecting and do their inner work, also to recognise the value of their Twinflame and to go back. Yes, Karmics are a blessing for a Twinflame connection from a higher perspective. Karmic connections refine the incredibly stubborn divine masculines, helping them in ascension and awaken to their mission work.
Trauma bonding can also happen in a Twinflame connection. But if it happens, it happens between all three, not just between the DM and DF. Because it’s an energetic loop between all three.
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A letter to people from my past who shamed me that it’s my karma – 2
So I have been posting about how starseeds make soul contracts to be abused or struggle for first half of their life. Because to overcome it, they have to heal themselves and do shadow work. This way they become healers and explore their innate gifts and later they can teach about healing techniques and shadow work to others, second half of their life.
I have also been posting about how universe uses karma to temper stubborn people who resist change and awakening, to make surrender to healing and inner work and ascension.
But honestly I do not think it was my karma at all, even in past. Otherwise those people won’t be getting any of their karma back right.
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An empath & people guilt trip you to stay stuck in abuse. Read this!
You are a human and it comes with certain limitations. You can’t be that perfect because life is not perfect, it keeps changing, and so do you.
Stop trying to be everything to everyone. Choose yourself.
Don’t allow people when they to try make a god out of you. You are a human. When they keep abusing you but keep expecting tolerance for the name of forgiveness. You can not keep sacrificing your happiness for their temporary ego satisfaction.
And for the facts, those wounded people are not going to feel true happiness anyway, until they choose to self reflect and heal. So don’t sacrifice yourself for nothing.
Even if you made a few mistakes, may be the only mistake of committing to the wrong person. You are just a human. Sometimes you are going to make mistakes, sometimes you are going to hurt some people. And that’s okay.
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BLAME – shadow attributes
I have talked about a lot of light attributes like compassion, empathy, unconditional love. Today let’s talk about a dark attribute, that is blame.
Whatever happens to us, we tend to or even love to project the blame outwards. Someone else is the cause of all our suffering.
We should not blame anything or anyone. Because everything outside of us, is a reflection of what is inside of us, the darkness inside us.
Everything and everyone is a mirror.
It’s just not a Starseed, a healer or a twin flame that mirrors us, it’s the whole world.
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Why do twin flames recieve so much hate from the judgemental society?
I call it “judgmental” society because there is another community which respects twin flames like anything. The community that includes Lightworkers/starseeds, humanities, healers, shamans, earth angels, poets and lovers.
Twin flames are a symbol of love. So everyone who isn’t vibrating on the frequency of love, hates them. That’s why toxic people hate us the most. Anyone who is disconnected from their true self, who doesn’t feel love inside, who doesn’t have self-love, who doesn’t believe in love, who hates love, who has attached negative stories to the definition of love, who is wounded inside, who lives in toxicity and disfunction, everyone who doesn’t have faith, hates us. Just like everyone who struggles with their own darkness, hates Lightworkers.
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Karmic Relationships
I have been talking about Twin Flames and soulmates. Today let’s talk about karmic relationships.
As it sounds, it’s about karma. Karma not necessarily from a past life, but karma that makes you wound mates. It can be anyone, that spirit aligns you to meet if that is what required to push you towards the path of inner work. This person will mirror all your childhood wounds and past wounds, it will feel familiar like a soulmate because you will feel you have so much in common. But is it meant to last?
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Playing the victim and holding people accountable for abuse are two different things.
There’s a difference between playing the victim and actually being the victim. Truth hurts!!
Until the victims blames themselves for what happened to them, they can’t heal. The victim has to acknowledge that what happened to him/her, wasn’t her fault. And it was someone else’s fault and also say it on their face.
Speak your truth. Noone has the right to change your side of story.
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Women Empowerment.
We’re not in an era where men abuse women, it’s an era where women abuse women.
Women who pity themselves for being illtreated by society, still treat other women with disrespect, abuse, backstabbing, gossip, slander, bullying, verbal abuse, scapegoating, identity theft and a lot more.
Women who think only they were suppressed and no one else, have a victim mentality. Women who think they deserve to abuse other women, because they had a better life, because others were never abused . And women who try to rub other’s past wounds to feel better about themselves.
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