You can choose to be A Victim, A Voice or An Inspiring Story

January 24, 2020April 2, 2021Leave a comment

Soften your heart..

It’s going to make your heart feel heavy. But everyone needs to realise this.

In the life of hustle, we harden our hearts so much that we forget the meaning of life, the meaning of love.

Everyone just wants to be on top, wants to put others down to make themselves better. Our society has been it’s own enemy while setting the norms of perfection, comparison and success. People don’t realise what they do to just satisfy their ego, can create endless pain for someone. There is a need to soften everyone’s heart, it’s not like it’s not in them. When you travel, spend alone time with nature, don’t you feel those quality of your loving soul. It’s in everyone but has been submerged by our lifestyles.

There is another type of people on the spectrum, those who have been through pain and understand the meaning of pain, not wanting to see anyone to go through same pain. This is the empathy which life teaches us, it tries everyday but only some learn. Is it that difficult to understand what it means to lose a loved one. Even after living through so much, some people choose to bring light in someone else’s life.

And those who suffer, don’t think of ending your life, get support, get counseling, choose to be heard. It doesn’t make you less, it shows you are more stronger than your problems. You can choose to be a victim, a voice or an inspiring story. Choose the right option.

People suicide when they experience pain on such level, that they feel it’s easier to end life than live in that void, that sadness and helplessness.

Everyone of you can choose to do your part to save more lives. You can do it by not demeaning others to make yourself better, learn to self-reflect and self descipline. You can do it by being a listening ear to someone who is finding themselves helpless with no shoulder to cry on. You can do it by spending time with your loved ones and being open to listening shame if they have something to talk about. You can do it by spreading awareness of how one’s behavior can be harmful to others.

And most importantly you can do it by learning to love yourself in every situation, when you love yourself, nor there is a need to suppress yourself, nor something can hurt you this badly, nor you have a need to suppress someone else, nor there is fear in reaching out for help, and you are always ready to teach others how to love themselves.

Kudos to those who chose to reach our for help and their families who stick through the pain with them.

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The Truth About KARMA

January 24, 2020August 31, 2020Leave a comment

Spirituality is not being understood well. Karma is not bigger than life.
People keep blaming their life situations saying that it’s their past life Karma. I agree, to something that you are not able to find an answer could be past life Karma. But people either forget or don’t want to understand the fact that present karma is more powerful than past karma. And life is powerful than both.

Once you become conscious, all the karma leaves behind, because it changes your psychological structure, your memory, you remember your true self with all the 7 qualities of soul in balance. Now you can properly conduct this life that’s in you. And this ultimately makes you escape the karmic trap itself.

Funny thing is people blame past karma, but don’t even realise what they are doing in present. It’s not always that you get your past life Karma back, most of the times it’s from your present life itself. Day to night all that negativity you spread, that negativity enters you first before entering anyone else and keeps you in a state of lower consciousness.

Theory of Karma itself says, karma doesn’t come back after few days, months or years. Whatever you do on to others, is already done to you, it already brought you in the lower vibration. To make such decisions of doing wrong Karma by will, it takes certain level of unconsciousness.

And some people be like we didn’t have a choice. Perhaps you did have a choice, but because the right path was tough, you chose the easy one. Not making a choice is also a choice. What choices you are ready to make, also depends on your will power/soul power.

When you make the right choices even in chaos, maybe you are in trouble because of past karma, but even while facing the situation, if you take right actions, this good karma will also come back. Isn’t it!!

I know I am dropping a bomb here, and a lot of people are going to be like what!! But just pay attention to what is being told in so many scriptures and by so many spiritual gurus, it’s all the same thing. I’m not talking about anything new.

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A break from life

March 15, 2019July 30, 2022Leave a comment

It’s summer here in Bangalore & I can remember my childhood days totally. If you are an Indian and 90’s kid, remember the fun, freedom and happiness, the summer vacation used to bring to each of us. We would wait for the summers to arrive whole year. We used to be free souls and happy from within for no big reasons.

These days when I look around, I struggle to find people who are happy like we used to be in childhood. I see people smiling, laughing, enjoying, partying. I see all kind of joyful people who are now adults but I don’t see that absolute happiness in anyone.

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Change for a better life

July 6, 2017September 7, 2020Leave a comment

It’s 21st century and in the hustle of this busy life, we have all lost the kid inside us, our purity, love and kindness.

The only thing every human being wants is not money, not fame, but only inner peace and happiness. To be happy you need to love yourself first. For that you need to understand that you should not seek love, in fact you should be love.

1. Love yourself

Nothing can be more attractive when you love yourself. Love spreads like fragrance of a perfume. When you love yourself, you become that perfume. You don’t need to put efforts to love anyone then. It just spreads in form of good vibes.

2. Learn to forgive yourself

After all you are a human being, everyone makes mistakes. Don’t be a victim of your own guilt. You are here on earth to live and learn like everyone else. As far as you keep learning from your mistakes and never repeat them, it’s fine. First, you need to free yourself from any guilt then only you can be a happy soul and spread love

3. Come what may

Don’t be scared of obstacles, understand that is the path. It’s life, and it’s full of problems, everyday you have to face a new problem. But no problem is bigger than you. Don’t stop working, look at the solutions, not at the problem and one day you will achieve your goals.

“What’s in the way, is the way”

4. Surround yourself with more people like you

It’s a scientific fact that everyone’s personality is affected by the 5 people, they spend most of their time with. Be it your family or friends or people at work. Your personality is going to be affected by them. Be positive within yourself and also surround yourself with more positive people.

You can’t change a person from negative to positive, the more you try, the weaker you become. The world is already full of negative people, at least you need to stay positive and calm.

5. Happiness is an inside job

Don’t depend on anything external to make you happy. Neither achievements, nor money or a person should be a reason for your happiness. Always focus on your inner peace.

6. Connect with nature

To do anything in life, you need energy. Only nature can give you that energy. Take early morning walks, watch sun sets, sit in a garden, water the plants, go travelling, take deep breaths in fresh air. Boost yourself up with positive energy.

7. Take control of your life

No one else than you knows where you stand in your life and your goals. Analyse and take action on your own. Listen to others but don’t follow them. Choose your priorities and act accordingly. People love to stop you from doing something they would do. At the same time they would underestimate your potential and tell you not to take a stand. Later on those are the people who will admire you for taking a stand. i.e. It’s only you who gets to choose your path, after all it’s your life.

8. Be active

A healthy body means healthy mind and leads a happy life. Go for morning walks, cycling or gym everyday. Try to eat healthy and drink water regularly. Do meditations, Yoga or workout whichever you like.

9. Read and learn

Learning never stops, at any age. Reading helps you learn about new aspects of life. It makes you smarter, reduces stress, helps prioritize goals.

10. Put time into your relationships

Always keep your emotional connections on priority like your family, partner and then friends. Those are the people who stand by you in your good times and bad times. They are your support system and you are their support system. Love makes everyone happy.

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10 Moments Make-up Lovers Hate

December 8, 2016August 31, 2020Leave a comment

Makeup is an art, which helps you ace a new look everyday. But some people don’t understand it. 😉

Here are 10 moments all make-up lovers hate.

When someone ditches you on a date

You don’t care about the person, you just hate them for wasting your make-up. After all it was a date and you finally aced that perfect makeup look for a date.

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MSM Box November 2016 | Review

December 4, 2016August 31, 20201 Comment

What is MSM Box

MSM box is an online beauty products retailer. Check out their website msmbox.com. They also offer monthly beauty subscription services like MSM Express box and MSM Select Box. Basically they offer a different themed box every month which has some beauty, skin care, hair care or makeup products. Hence, you can just order the box if you like the theme and save yourself from hustle of choosing products. Not to forget, they provide full size products as well as deluxe sized samples in the box. Including samples in the box reduces its cost and you get products worth double the cost or even higher. Isn’t it exciting, it will be a gift to you from you. 🙂

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18 Gifts for your Mom to make her feel Special

September 18, 2016August 31, 2020Leave a comment

Have you ever thought of doing something special for you mom. I know Mom’s love is unconditional. Even if you don’t buy her gifts or if you buy anything random, she is gonna love it. But, let’s think of doing something special for our mom, let’s make her feel special. You can do this any day of the year not only on her birthday, mother’s day, Christmas or Diwali.

So, have you decided what to gift her! Don’t worry, we know how difficult it is to choose gifts and so I am here to help you 🙂

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3 Flight booking sites / apps you should start using in India

September 17, 2016April 4, 2020Leave a comment

I know all of us already know about Goibibo, MakeMyTrip, Yatra and ClearTrip. But I’m not going to talk about these.
Here we are going to talk about few rising travel booking sites and apps which are trustworthy and are giving some awesome discount offers. ‘Trustworthy’ , because I have used this sites personally. 🙂

So let’s start with the list, the first two are my favorites 🙂

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11 GIFs That Perfectly Describe The Types Of Roommates in Boys’ Hostel

August 27, 2016August 31, 20203 Comments

There are so many different kinds of people in this world. This post will make you relate to at least one roommate of yours.

The Party Animal

The one who loves to drink and dance. There is not going to be single weekend without a party.

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13 GIFs That Perfectly Describe The Types Of Roommates in Girls’ Hostel

August 26, 2016August 31, 20203 Comments

There are so many different kinds of girls in this world. This post will make you relate to at least one roommate of yours. I have lived in hostels for last 9 years and this is my experience.

One who always needs more shopping

Every time she looks into their cupboard, she says this

The One with OCD syndrome

There are people who cannot live everything around them is not cleaned and organised. If you have this kind of roommate, then you are lucky. Your room is always going to be clean. 😉

The Borrower

She can borrow anything and everything from you and never stop.

The Thief

Your stuff keeps disappearing and you have a doubt in her.

The Cool one

Cool girls are the best roommates one can have. They don’t mind anything you do.

The Party Animal

The one who loves to drink and dance. There is not going to be single weekend without a party.

The Chatter Box

Sometimes talkative girls are so hard to handle but there are more advantages, you are never going to feel lonely.

The Obsessed one

She is so obsessed with you that she follows your style, makeup, your schedule everything. Sometimes, she just wants to become like you.

The Perfect Match

When you find out your roommate is just like you. If you two can literally communicate with even a blink, then you have found your perfect match.

The Needy one

The Hold + Explode one

The Makeup Addict
She is always dolled up, never goes out without makeup. Sometimes you wonder how would she look like without makeup.

The Confident Bitch
Not in the bad sense, but a bad bitch is someone who ain’t got time for shit. She lives drama free and always follows her heart. You cannot make her do what she doesn’t want to do. This kind of girls are so fun. I am thinking to add my own GIF for this one 😉, as I am becoming a bitch. But I guess Rihanna is perfect for it. Yo..

All GIF’s are taken from http://www.giphy

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