I always win

Karmic posted something to tell me that my success will be short lived and I should not let it get to my head. She is dumb to think that success will fall into her lap without doing any hard work. That’s why she is a failure. And she thinks, to be successful she needs to outwork others, she means she always needs to compete with others and bring them down. She wrote about herself but projected onto me that my success will be short-lived.

So here’s the thing, I know I am not being dumb when I think I will never fail, because it’s based on facts. I have always won, never lost. Even if I fail at something, suppose an exam, next year I set even higher goals and I still win. I have never experienced failure in my life. Depends on, if you have a high IQ to understand the right definition of failure.😉 I have faced many obstacles, delays, I have gone through almost everything that a human being can go through, but ultimately I always win in the end, and I am still winning at life. It’s my attitude that defines my success. I don’t remember a single day when I did pity party like the karmic, that success was taken away as fast as it came. Because my success is always permanent, it always stays, because I don’t use shortcuts you know.

Karmic tried for 4 months to get a reaction out of me and when she finally got my reaction, what happened? People admire me even more now. They like my shadow side. I agree it was my shadow side which comes out only when required. I have control over my shadow side because I have integrated it. I use it when I need it. I don’t feel any shame to show my shadow side, because you must have done something if you are having to deal with my shadow side and you deserve it. My soul tribe likes my dual nature. Kya karoon yaar, dimag kharab ho gaya tha. Aisa lag raha tha ki, ruk saali aaj to terko main dikhati hoon. I had to show her. That no one cares, just because you gaslight someone, doesn’t mean the whole world will start believing that they are mentally unstable, just because you claim they are.

I have always talked openly about my trauma and people follow me for it, why would they judge me if I give a reaction. On full moon day I wrote this, translating it to English “go away from my life as fast as you can, wicked witch!! You have been clinging onto me like a parasite for the last 3 years”. (Daayan sali, bhaag yahaan se. Chudail ki tarah chipak gayi hai 3 saal se.) Because I was so done with this karmic, I felt like I finally need to give her a reaction and show her that no one cares. I got tired of her calling me her friend, best friend, coworker, teammate, what not. She even called me her soulmate the day she wanted to harass me.🤢 I had to tell her that she has been dead in life for 3 years now, I don’t care what she thinks. She wanted people to turn against me, but look people admire me even more now. I always win.😉

Why do people love it so much to become an obstacle in the path of starseeds?

Today is not the day when I realised this, its been years. And no matter how many obstacles came through, I persevered, old obstacles know it pretty well.

People say they don’t believe in starseeds and make fun that it’s some woo-woo stuff. But then the extra amount of hate that starseeds get, confirms that those people do believe it inside.

People pray to God to send them healing, forgiveness, love, truth, light, faith, life. People even pray for an angel to come their way and save them. And then God decides how he wants to answer their prayers. So sometimes God sends them his instruments, the healers.

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Life is a journey

Life is a journey. Some days you are gonna meet people who share the same path as you. Some days you are gonna meet people who don’t.

Some days you enjoy the present, some other days you plan the future, some days you miss the past.
Some days you will find the life to be very easy, other days to be so tough that you want to give up. It’s always going to be two steps forward, one step backwards.

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Don’t hate your haters, love them.

When you have more uninvited hidden followers than official followers. They are haters but also the first fans.

I even have proof about this.

Who noticed first when I wanted to start YouTube channel?
Haters.
Who noticed first when I came out of depression?
Haters.
Who noticed first my skills in painting?
Haters.
Who noticed first when I was changing my career?
Haters.
Who were my first customers when I started my own business?
Haters.

Always be grateful for whatever comes your way, no one will teach you more lessons than a hater.

P.S. This is something I had written long back but always hesitated to post it on the blog. I learnt this concept from one female YouTuber. But I don’t remember her name now.

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There’s nothing wrong with you

I am not asking you to stop self-reflection, we all make mistakes and have our lessons to learn. But the part that I am trying to bring light on is-

We have become so robotic, running this life’s race, that we have forgotten what real connections mean. What feeling heard, feeling loved and feeling enough means.

We need to read Instagram posts and watch motivational videos on YouTube, just to remind ourselves that “I am lovable, I can do it, I do deserve it”. We have lost touch with ourselves, so much that in real life there’s no one who tells you this.

That’s how we all live a life feeling not enough, not heard, not lovable, not deserving and then every day looks like a struggle. Everyone goes around facing problems, complaining, being sad, unmotivated, feeling miserable and some even end up creating troubles for others. Only because no one feels good about themselves.

We have created this never-ending loop, maybe it’s time we start appreciating each other, and more than that, start appreciating ourselves, loving ourselves.

I realised this when I am finally over all the negative stuff and I realise, “wow there’s nothing wrong with me, there was nothing wrong with me ever”. But why did I feel like that, because there was no one to say these words to me, and even if some people did, all those problems, all that fog leaves an impression on subconscious that there must be something wrong, otherwise why so many problems. Logically I knew it’s not my fault, but some things still enter your subconscious. Including people who were trying to make me feel like there’s is something wrong with me, all this time. I get to think that this is a problem, probably one that everyone deals with.

Just because your life is full of problems, it does not mean you are not enough, it’s just a part of destiny. So do not entangle what happens on the outside, with what happens on the inside. When you feel good inside, every day is a blessing. Love yourself.

What we talked about here is a deep inner child wound and needs healing.

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Nature is like life-sauce for Empaths

Life-sauce ☘️🍁🍀
It’s true for everyone, but Empaths. They get their boost from earth.

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Always Love Yourself First, Never Second

Everytime you think you found someone who you can love more than yourself, they will prove you wrong.

Self-love

Noone in this world deserves your love more than you do. It’s only you who is going to stick up with yourselves for the whole life.

People will come and go, they will change, change their priorities, all that will remain is your relationship with yourself.

Always be true to yourself, never hide what you feel, because it’s worth it. You are worthy to feel how you want to, to live how you want to, to be how you want to.

Thank you for reading it till the end. If you have any queries, let me know in the comment section.

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Everything is a blessing

Did something happen in your life, which was unexpected, which broke you down, which shattered you? A dream that looks farther to achieve, something or someone you loved moved away, suddenly your life took a turn which you never expected?

Remember the times, when you faced other big problems and grew through it. If you could overcome that, you are capable of overcoming this too. It’s tough, but you are tougher than your problems.

When life breaks you, it gives you a chance to be reborn. It’s your choice if you want to be miserable or strong.

Personally, whenever I faced a problem in my life, which was always bigger than the past problems I had gone through and I felt like life is over. But there was one thing, each problem just made me stronger, and it led me towards self-awareness and a higher consciousness.

“What shatters you, also has the power to re-make you.”

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Who am I?

I have been working on myself very hard for 3 years now and I feel it’s time to open up. I have been writing in a lot of posts that I know who I am. It’s going to be a big post but starting is more important.

I am an EMPATH. Empath is a personality type, it’s not a psychological problem, it’s actually how a person’s body and mind is structured to the level of DNA and neurons. We have heightened level of empathy, we can feel other people’s emotions in our body as of our own. Feeling other’s energies introduces sensitivity to sound, big crowdy places, heat, negative people, any kind of violence and toxic environments. It also comes with a gift of creativity and capability to heal myself and others.

I am not an exception, I know and have connected with so many creative people and youtubers who are also are also empaths. I here most of them saying that it’s just that an empath is different, but I see it as being extra ordinary (because I feel it’s time to introduce the Highly sensitives in this world as powerful and not weak). All empaths are very kind, never want to do anything wrong. Empaths are kind, generous, giving, caring but sometimes they do it at the cost of their own happiness.

Most of the empaths have strong intuition in childhood, growing up they learn to fit in the society and suppress their intuition and creativity as well. Sometimes we grow up feeling odd one out and with self-doubt of being crazy. Because we don’t know that the emotions that we feel are other people’s. Feeling anger, criticism, anxiety of everyone around is messy.

It’s very important for Empaths to be aware of what they are. Otherwise they spend most of their life in a limbo, in nihilism. We attract abusers, bullies and energy vampires because we are able to generate our own energy and we have a light because of our goodness. Our light is what attracts more abuse, being sensitive increases the affect of abuse on an empath than on any other type of person.

I have been working on myself and learnt a lot of things about myself. When empath are educated they are more powerful, strong and abuse-free. I have started becoming an empowered empath and rather than being scared of other people’s energies, now I enjoy being me.

Self love is the only thing which saves every empath from a lot of things. It makes us empowered and in control of our emotions. Not only I practice self-love, but it has also become my essence now.

I don’t see being sensitive as a flaw, it makes me different. I feel sensitive to nature, animals, children and people in need and want to help them. Which I don’t thing is a negative quality. My sensitivity brings me so many blessings.

I was waiting for the right time to share this with people, because I needed to be in an empowered state before sharing it. I know there is a chance of people reacting negatively to this. But now I am ready to deal with it.

I have also been going through an spiritual awakening since the time a completely accepted that I am an empath. First it was like an emotional awakening, when I remembered my deep self that I have been hiding. I learnt to love myself, to admire my own uniqueness, to appreciate myself for coming out strong through so many things. Then suddenly all my unconscious fears started coming up, I learnt that it is the “dark knight of the soul” phase that I am going through. Where all my qualities that were suppressed and all the fears that were introduced to me by my surroundings/society. After working on most of them and the big fears, I started blossoming and being happy. It was a feeling of bliss which I had never experienced.

Next I found myself changing psychologically, creatively and in every aspect of my life. Now I just be myself and get in flow with life. It’s like I am blossoming, and sometimes it gets scary because it’s new to me. But it’s still an expansion for me. I am becoming what I was meant to be and I am happy about it.

I am still a work in progress and still do get more realisations every now and then. I still have a lot to explore about myself and life. Sharing my journey with the world is also a part of loving myself unconditionally and fearlessly.

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