Tag: emotional maturity

Karmic’s pre-meditated plan to keep the lovers apart

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Karmic was after him from the beginning only because she knew we are Twinflames and I like him. In this post, I have laid out everything month-wise. If you haven’t gone through part 1 of this post, you might want to read it first. Click here Judgements

We all met in January 2020 and I walked away from him in March. She started trying to lure him, majorly since April, by acting like me. She used to post too many WhatsApp statuses to copy me and I used to find it irritating. I had already distanced myself from the copycat because it was quite obvious now. She had also started doing spellwork in advance, on both of us. Then came his birthday, I made a plan with all our mutual friends to wish him. When I called the karmic to tell her the plan to wish him, she wasn’t happy. It was her behaviour, how she spoke and also my psychic abilities. She wanted to be the only one to wish him and also because she has told him lies that I will not give him a second chance. I was just waiting for him to unblock me and reach out, but he was being stubborn to apologise just like he is doing at present. She wished him separately, not in our group call. It’s good to talk to a guy the whole night if you want to date him, right? By which all the old mutual friends can now understand, how pre-meditated she was. They didn’t even start dating yet. Anyways, he didn’t entertain her that day.

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Channelled Message from Spirit

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New channelled message from spirit for healers & lightworkers.

I did not know if this message resonated with my current situation but it surely is a great lesson for any healer.
#detach #noexpectations #selflove

We will cross paths with a lot of people whole our life. Keep moving forward. The good karma will come back, but it’s not always necessary for it to come back from same people that we helped. Detach and don’t drain your energy at wrong places. You are loved by your angels & guides and they like to see you happy. Always make time for self care and rejuvenate your self.

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Fear of Abandonment

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Fear of abandonment is the first thing which is common in both Narcissists and codependent Empaths. It keeps them both stuck in a toxic cycle.

Codependents take abuse only because of their fear of abandonment. Narcissists manipulate people, so when they sense that their mask is falling off and the victim can see it, they escalate the abuse.

Fear of abandonment makes people not trust, not be in touch with their emotions and run away at the slightest chance of abandonment. Where it gets difficult is maybe there is no one even thinking about abandoning the person, but they will keep reacting to their own fear and ruin a stable relationship. It causes a lot of inner turmoil to accept the truth.

This fear makes you feel like even good things are too good to be true. It’s an inner child wound and most of the time it comes from childhood trauma. The person needs to do inner child work, work on self-love and improve the self-talk, replace negative thoughts with rational thoughts & positive affirmations. And sometimes let that fear become real, let someone abandon you, process all your emotions that come after it for once, the fear will be gone. Time heals everything.

I know it’s easier said than done. But a temporary pain can heal your fears for a lifetime. You stayed with this fear for decades and it doesn’t feel good to live in fear. Let’s overcomes it for once and enjoy a happy emotional life.

All the best for your self-love and healing journey. Healing is selfless deed and Universe appreciates & supports everyone who is trying to heal themselves.
When you heal, blessings will soon be revealed. Sending you love and light  XOXOXO 

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The EGO of being RIGHT

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The more you want to be right, the more in ego you are.

Now I am not saying that there’s something wrong in being right. But there are people who always just want to be right, they will do anything to prove the other person wrong. It’s like a war for them or may give them a sense of control, or maybe power, they can go to extent of manipulation and demeaning you, just to prove themselves right.

For some people it’s so important to be right, then whenever they are wrong, it becomes an argument for them, which they want to win at any cost. ‘My way or the highway’ type of thinking. Why is it so important to be right? Because it satisfies your ego. Or maybe you never learnt what it means to argue as a team to resolve an issue and not make it a war where only one can win. For some people it’s a coping mechanism to feel safe in a relationship, to always have things their way.

It affects our relationships so much. Listening is so important but people don’t realise. This is a behavioural pattern that is also created while growing up. It happens only because of ego, learn to tame your ego and you will have better healthier relationships.

Relationships should be based on ‘In this together’ not against each other.

Think, what matters, a relationship which is win-win for both, or for only one person.

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